How To Be Single And Happy In 7 Easy Steps

How To Be Single And Happy In 7 Easy Steps

As long as I can remember, I have always wanted to be married and have babies. That, I was told, was the key to being happy and the key to becoming a fulfilled woman. The idea that anyone can be single and happy these days can seem a bit foreign because by a certain age we’re told that it’s time to settle down and it’s time to get married. But what if you haven’t found the right person yet? What if you just don’t want to be married? In this blog post, I’m giving you seven simple yet highly doable steps to help you be single and happy at the same time!

“If you aren’t happy single then you won’t be happy taken. Happiness comes from within, not other people.”

How Can I Enjoy Being Single And Happy?

 

1. LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF

Learning to love yourself can be hard. It is one thing to have someone else tell you they love you or tell you how beautiful you are. It’s a whole other thing for you to believe those words and say them to yourself.

I have been single for four years and that means that I have had four long years to really sit down and think about a few things. The longer I’ve been single, I have come to realize that my happiness was based on what other people thought of me.

Joy and inner peace, I thought, came from the validation I would receive from other people and their affection. As a 28-year-old woman now entering her purpose, I can see where that outdated definition of self-love came from.

As a child, I never felt beautiful. I was confident but I never thought anyone would love me because my eyebrows never behaved, I was “big-boned” and a lot taller than other girls my age. Plus I was hopelessly awkward.

 

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This lack of self-love and confidence then led me to date guys who I thought would make me feel more beautiful, instead of learning how to love and accept everything that made me unique. This happens to so many men and women especially in the age of social media that we live in.

Being single and happy, for me, means understanding the true meaning of self-love and realizing that I would rather be alone than be with someone just to feel good.

When you embrace yourself, flaws and all, you slowly come to realize just how wonderful you really are. You learn to love the weird way your ears stick out at the side, and be happy that you will never miss a thing being said to you.

Embrace how broad your shoulders are and be grateful you’ll never need shoulder pads. Solitude gives you the space to grow to love yourself without the influence of outside voices.

Being single doesn’t mean that you know nothing about love. It means that you’re discovering more and more things to love about yourself.

 

2. FIND A HOBBY YOU LOVE

Who doesn’t love a good hobby? Hobbies are a great way to engage in something you enjoy instead of thinking about the fact that you’re not dating at the moment.

There is so much more to having a hobby than simply playing with yarn. Having the right hobby not only enriches your life, it is also an amazing way to try new experiences and learn new skills.

For many people, being single means that they have more time on their hands. This gives them the unique opportunity to explore other sides of themselves that they never knew existed.

As a happy single, I have discovered that I love creating online content that helps others, I can design, illustrate and sew garments from scratch plus I’m not half bad at Hula Dancing.

The possibilities for what you can do during your spare time are limitless. Hobbies also eradicate boredom and are a great way to build your confidence and self-esteem.

So while you have the time, come up with a few (or a lot of) activities you’ve always wanted to try but never got the chance. Now is as good a time as any to stretch your legs and yourself.

George Matthew Allen once said, “People with many interests live, not only the longest but the happiest.”

 

3. GO OUT BY YOURSELF

I admit that I love a good excuse to dress up and go out. There is no more satisfying a feeling than dressing up in my best outfit and getting all dolled up just to hang out with myself.

Society seems to enjoy telling us that the only way single people can have fun is to hang around other single people but this is not true at all. The ability to go to the movies and laugh as loudly as you want to or going to a buffet, and pigging out all night is one of the best parts of being a happy single.

People might see you do this multiple times and they might even judge you for it, but so what? Are you really going to let someone else’s opinion ruin the amazingness that is sitting in a Starbucks enjoying their free Wi-Fi while you sip on a latte?

I didn’t think so!

 

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Instead of spending your Friday and Saturday nights at home on the couch alone, watching reruns of The Good Place, grab your coat and some heels, and get your butt out there.

It doesn’t have to be expensive either. You can have fun while getting an ice cream from the seller down the street.

Taking a walk in the park or going to a late movie can also be inexpensive ways to venture out into your local community and get your butt out of the house at the same time.

Whatever you enjoyed doing in your previous relationship can also be enjoyed while riding solo. So don’t be afraid. Grab your best pants or your best wedges and go for it.

 

4. TRAVEL SOLO

Throughout the past two years, I’ve discovered that one of the biggest pros of being single is that I can pack up and go wherever I want, whenever I want. I have truly never felt so free!

Travelling solo is the one piece of advice I will forever give my single brothers and sisters because it is such an amazing way to grow as a person. After my marriage ended and left a gaping hole in my heart, I thought I’d ever have a normal life or be happy again.

After having travelled to quite a few places in and around Japan, I can now laugh at that immature and naive mindset.

Through my travels, I have discovered how brave, strong and resourceful I am. I have also come to realize that I really prefer, for the most part, to travel solo.

Travelling solo is scary and wonderful and confusing; all at the same time and I love it. You have a unique advantage as a single person because you might not have children or anyone preventing you from travelling.

As you learn how to be happy alone, you’ll realize the opportunities that exist within solo travel. I even know amazing, single moms who travel with their kids.

You never know! The world is your buffet. Come and get it.

 

5. MEET OTHER SINGLES

When you are single, it is often tempting to believe that you are in this by yourself. It’s like regardless of all the friends and coworkers we have who have been single for like a million years, our brain tells us that we’re alone.

I struggled with this limiting belief for months before I realized that it was holding me back from enjoying my singleness. Please don’t waste your time harbouring these ridiculous thoughts.

In every city, at any given time, there are thousands of singles walking around, living their lives and breathing. Yes, you heard it right here. You are one of many.

We’re now seeing an increase in the number of happy singles because many are choosing to marry later in life after getting their education and careers in order.

A great benefit of the increase in singles has been the introduction of “Meet Up” groups. These groups are normally categorized by interests and hobbies, such as Art, Reading or Photography.

You’re then able to filter by category and meet some fantastic people who you might never have encountered otherwise. Just last month I met up with some amazing women I met in an online group and had a fantastic BBQ.

Look at your lifestyle and try to figure out when and where you’d like to include other people in your schedule. You might find that you enjoy hosting dinners with your other single friends or Saturday nights!

 

6. DON’T WORRY ABOUT IT

Please do not spend your time as a single worrying about your next relationship. This is the time to focus on the things that make you happy, not things that stress you out for no reason.

Plus, most of the worries and fears we harbour about being single never actually happen, and we waste our thinking space by accommodating thoughts that have no place in our lives.

When I first became single, I was consistently worried about everything that came with that. Would I forever be alone? Am I never getting married? Will I never have children?

Are my eggs going to dry up and just fall out due to lack of use? Absurdity at its finest.

 

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When I was approximately sixteen years old, I would daydream about the kind of future I was going to have. I’d meet the perfect guy, graduate from university, get married and live happily ever after.

When that dream didn’t go the way I had expected, I was lost. I thought that my window of opportunity had passed and I was no longer viable for Prince Charming.

If this is you, this is the time to let it go. Stop worrying. Your time will come. One day God will send the man or woman who is perfectly imperfect, and you’ll look back at this period of worry and laugh.

Worrying changes nothing and there are so many other, better, more productive activities you could be doing such as a hobby, taking yourself out, travelling or meeting other singles. I hope you see what I did there. 🙂

 

7. EMBRACE BEING SINGLE

Finally, embrace being single. Being single is an opportunity and a gift that many wish could have been extended for them.

This is an essential time for you as it gives you space and time you need to know exactly who you are and where you want to go in life.

We put so much emphasis on being in a relationship and being married that many have no clue how to handle being by themselves. If we don’t completely know who we are before entering into a relationship with another person, the relationship is bound for disaster before it even begins.

Think of this waiting period as a time to work on any internal issues and personality quirks that might want to be mended. Focus on other things in your life that you have going on.

It is 100% possible to be single and happy, and it is entirely possible to live a fulfilling life while being single.

Appreciate being single because that’s when you grow most…and with that growth, you will come to know what you’re looking for!


If you enjoyed reading learning the seven steps to being single and happy, then you would also enjoy reading this post about how to fully own your life and potential for greatness.

Also, do you think that you can be single and happy?  Do you think you can be fulfilled as a single person? Comment below. Please also like and share this post, and join the community so you never miss a thing!

Until next time. Peace, love and prayers.

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  1. December 12, 2017 / 7:59 AM

    I’m glad I found a hobby when I was single – I used to drive myself mad, constantly looking for love and then getting frustrated when things didn’t go to plan. Once I had a distraction – I was less focused on that aspect of my life and just let my relationships flow more naturally.

    • December 12, 2017 / 11:49 AM

      Exactly. That’s absolutely wonderful. I am happy that you’ve taken the time to invest in an activity which is worth while and takes your mind off things.

  2. December 12, 2017 / 1:53 PM

    I love your post. Your tips are so great. Our society has an unreasonable expectation that everyone needs to be with someone.

  3. December 12, 2017 / 2:16 PM

    many of these tips will apply to those not single too 🙂 so thank you

  4. December 12, 2017 / 6:50 PM

    Not single anymore! But this post was a nice reminder to be happy with who I am regardless of the circumstances. Thanks for sharing!

    • December 15, 2017 / 8:23 AM

      Thank you for visiting and commenting. I really appreciate the support.

  5. December 13, 2017 / 4:23 AM

    Such a nice post! I really like how you included “Hobby”. I think putting time towards a hobby can help to release your creative energy and occupy time that would be spent thinking about finding someone else.

    • December 15, 2017 / 8:23 AM

      Yes I spent way too much time thinking about being single before I had a hobby that I enjoyed. Much happier now.

  6. December 13, 2017 / 7:35 AM

    I have a few friends who recently went single after longterm relationships. They all did something out of their comfort zone to shake it up and are now living their best selves. One moved to a foreign country, another lost all of relationship weight, and another picked up rock climbing. It’s so cool to see people overcome hurdles.

    • December 15, 2017 / 8:24 AM

      That is so amazing. I love seeing people overcome rough situations and become stronger people. Kudos to them!

  7. December 13, 2017 / 7:41 AM

    I’m currently in a very happy relationship, however, I was single for a long time beforehand. Number one can be very hard to do. Even in a relationship, I struggle with loving myself…baby steps every day. The one thing that’s helpful in assisting this is to do small things for yourself. Buy yourself roses or chocolate, make yourself a nice breakfast, go out to the movies. It’s the little things.

    • December 15, 2017 / 8:25 AM

      These are all amazing. I love that you took the baby steps. Those are super important.

  8. December 13, 2017 / 8:19 AM

    Such an important message especially going into the holiday season!

  9. December 13, 2017 / 1:03 PM

    I was single for the longest time, and it felt like FOREVER, but I always knew he’d show up in the right and perfect time… and he did! Love your great advice – I would also add : enjoy! Life is ever changing & you’ll look back one day & reminisce about those good il’ single days 😍

    • December 15, 2017 / 8:26 AM

      Yes! So happy for you. Congrats on your relationship and I will def add that to my list.

  10. December 13, 2017 / 1:32 PM

    I think everyone needs to be comfortable in their own skin and be able to stand on their own two feet before committing to a relationship. I like these tips… they’re like stepping stones 💕

  11. Tasheena
    December 13, 2017 / 3:03 PM

    Love your tips! Even though I’m in a relationship I still date myself and sometimes Travel solo.

  12. December 14, 2017 / 7:47 AM

    Finding a passion is very important. One should pick up a hobby that he/she enjoys. That helps pass time, acquire a new skill and evolve as a human being 🙂

  13. December 17, 2017 / 6:37 AM

    I think being grateful for the things in your life helps you be happy wherever you are at. But yes, doing things that make you happy will make you a happier single.

  14. December 17, 2017 / 2:44 PM

    I am not single but I can see how this advice would be useful for anyone is. Your post was insightful and thoughtful. Thank you for sharing this.

    • December 18, 2017 / 10:05 PM

      Thank you so much for commenting. I really appreciate it

  15. December 18, 2017 / 8:02 AM

    I am ‘Happily Single’ because I always keep myself engaged. Travelling to new places does refresh your mind.

  16. Cornelius Longbottom
    March 4, 2018 / 7:58 AM

    Great tips. As a single dude I am definitely going to follow some of this.

    • March 6, 2018 / 12:53 PM

      Great. I bet you’ll really start enjoying your singleness

  17. March 4, 2018 / 11:00 PM

    I wish I had read this back when I was single! These are great tips for everyone who is single. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with it! I love the idea of traveling solo as well! 😀
    xoxo
    Annie

    • March 6, 2018 / 10:40 AM

      Thank you. I had to learn these lessons and now am happy to help other singles!

  18. March 4, 2018 / 11:01 PM

    Being single is hard. Those are good suggestions. I did a lot of those things, too. Traveling with friends is really fun! Take advantage of the freedom.

    • March 6, 2018 / 10:39 AM

      Yes, I find that being single is the absolute best time to do as much growing as an individual as you can

  19. March 5, 2018 / 3:03 AM

    Those are all brilliant tips which I wish I’d realised when I was single! Learning to love yourself is key – and the hobby part applies to when you’re a mother too. It can be lonely sometimes.

    • March 6, 2018 / 10:31 AM

      It can be lonely but I think doing many of these things really helps you grow so much.

  20. March 5, 2018 / 3:36 AM

    I am happily married but I agree with the points you have given out. We must be happy with ourselves before we can be happy with someone else

    • March 6, 2018 / 10:30 AM

      Yes because two miserable singles makes for two miserable spouses

  21. Alice
    March 5, 2018 / 6:48 AM

    You are deffo right! it always happen when it least expect it, or at least that happened in my case. I love your advice!

  22. March 9, 2018 / 10:02 PM

    I just recently broke off a toxic relationship with a cheating partner and while it’s been painful, it’s also a fresh of breath air. I’m learning to love myself and not allow my happiness depend on another person.

    • March 10, 2018 / 12:03 PM

      So sad to hear about the toxic relationship. Am happy that you are much happier now

  23. March 10, 2018 / 2:45 AM

    Loving yourself is so important and so many people neglect this! It is hard to truly value anyone else if you cannot even value yourself.

  24. March 11, 2018 / 12:25 AM

    I found your 7 steps really useful. I think they are in general what all people should be aware of. I am not single, but I spend a lot of time on my own, and I love it, because I also have implemented these things in my life. They really do help. 🙂

    • March 15, 2018 / 7:03 PM

      They really do. I also love being alone too lol

  25. March 11, 2018 / 12:42 AM

    I was single for a few years after my divorce and I actually loved it!! Even though I fell in love and married again, I’m really glad for those years. I grew and learned a lot.

    • March 15, 2018 / 7:01 PM

      I’m going through the single period now and it has been fun

  26. Kaitlyn Nicole
    March 11, 2018 / 4:33 AM

    I think it’s important wveryone do this before entering a long term relationship as well ❤️ You have to learn to love yourself!

  27. March 11, 2018 / 5:18 AM

    When we are single we eat to be in a relationship, and when we are in a relationship sometimes we imagine being single.

  28. March 11, 2018 / 6:25 AM

    This is a really great post, and the best thing to do is always to love yourself first and foremost. Great advice.

  29. March 11, 2018 / 4:29 PM

    These tips sound very familiar to me as I unknowingly followed them when I was single years ago. lol. The only two I didn’t do were take myself out (to a dinner or anything) as it just weirded me out and I also did not travel alone. Sometimes I wonder what if though I had at least traveled by myself. But everything else I did do and it got to the point I actually enjoyed being single. Once I had embraced that chapter of my life God placed the man that became my husband before my path. I pray the same happens for you (if it hasn’t already as it sounds like a guy would be blessed to have you in their life). Great post!

    • March 11, 2018 / 5:45 PM

      Wow! This is so profound. I love it. I pray that God sends me that man soon. I just need to continue on my path directed by Him and soon it will be my time as well

  30. March 11, 2018 / 6:54 PM

    Always learn to love yourself. Also, travel as much as you can as you’ll learn a lot from your trips.

    • March 15, 2018 / 6:03 PM

      Yes I have learned alot about myself from traveling

  31. March 12, 2018 / 2:18 AM

    i did all these things when i was single & i loved it! i still do these things

  32. March 12, 2018 / 3:16 AM

    Being single is quite ok. I wouldn’t be in a hurry to be rid of it. Sharing your life with someone is nice but, I did appreciate the freedom, not answering to others and I would have taken advantage of traveling more if I could have.

    • March 15, 2018 / 5:54 PM

      Yes the freedom is great and it gives you time to get to know yourself

  33. Peter Nyiri
    March 12, 2018 / 4:10 AM

    I am really happy that you can look at life on the bright side.
    I totally agree that being friends with oneself is extremely important, and this way you can be happy. And maybe one day you’ll find your perfect match…

    • March 15, 2018 / 5:53 PM

      Yes one day I’m waiting on God to send him to me 🙂

  34. Joanna
    March 12, 2018 / 6:21 AM

    I have been single for quite some time before meeting the man of my life and if you embrace the fact that relationships are not everything in life, you can be very happy. Traveling, taking time for yourself, being able to do whatever you want whenever you want, they are all great things. Nobody should worry that they are single!

    • March 12, 2018 / 1:42 PM

      Exactly. I agree that being single can be the best thing that ever happened to you

  35. Blair Villanueva
    March 12, 2018 / 3:55 PM

    I am enjoying being single, but although I am in a relationship, we are currently LDR, so physically am single. So I enjoyed myself having lots of hobbies, travel, even meeting other people. Because at the end of the day, it is nice that you accomplish things, and in my case, have many stories to share to my partner.

    • March 12, 2018 / 4:16 PM

      Yes I do agree that it is amazing to have accomplished things on your own that you can then share with your future spouse

  36. March 13, 2018 / 2:48 AM

    I know someone going through a divorce and this post could be of help to them during this tough time. Thank you for sharing. I’ll be sure to pass it along.

    • March 13, 2018 / 7:20 PM

      Please do and please let them know that no matter how dark it seems now it will be okay

  37. Chuck
    March 13, 2018 / 7:41 PM

    Agree with all of these. These are pretty good tips to be happy even if your single

  38. March 14, 2018 / 1:56 AM

    I was single for a long time before I met my now fiance and I really enjoyed it and thought it was an integral part of my growth.

    • March 15, 2018 / 5:35 PM

      It is. Being single is a great part of growing up

  39. March 14, 2018 / 2:02 AM

    Great tips. Although I’m not single, I’ll share this with my friends who are single.

  40. March 14, 2018 / 4:16 AM

    These are great ideas when it comes to being happy being single. Although the one I have the hardest time is with taking myself out. I know I should do it more often, but I do not. I generally like going out with people or I stay home. Although some things out and about alone aren’t too bad. A nice hike is good too.

    • March 15, 2018 / 2:50 PM

      There is nothing wrong with being a home body. I like doing that too and I often enjoy being at home more

  41. March 14, 2018 / 10:31 AM

    Yes! Great advice. I absolutely love being single because when you do these 7 things, being single isn’t that big a deal.

  42. March 14, 2018 / 10:54 AM

    this is exactly what i did when i was single for quite sometime! it was a great discovery about myself and i also travelled a lot, truly enjoyed the independence.

    • March 15, 2018 / 2:46 PM

      Trust me, I am also enjoying my independence as well

  43. Amber Myers
    March 14, 2018 / 11:44 AM

    This is great advice. Being single can be a wonderful thing. I’m married, but I don’t mind being alone. You do have to love yourself so you don’t panic if you’re by yourself.

    • March 15, 2018 / 2:43 PM

      Yes you do. You have to love yourself before you can love anyone else

  44. Ally Jones
    March 14, 2018 / 12:32 PM

    I so wish I had come across this when I was single! What an amazing read!

  45. March 14, 2018 / 4:46 PM

    Wonderful points! Being single shouldn’t be a nightmare. We should enjoy it otherwise we’ll never be comfortable being in any relationship.

    • March 15, 2018 / 2:32 PM

      I agree. Being single should be seen as the gift it is

  46. Annreeba
    March 14, 2018 / 5:51 PM

    This post is a nice reminder to be happy with who I am and respect yourself. Great post.

  47. March 14, 2018 / 6:50 PM

    Such a useful article. Wish I could have got this 2 years back when i was single & was feeling same as mentioned.

    • March 15, 2018 / 2:24 PM

      Thank you so much. I think this advice works at any age

  48. March 14, 2018 / 7:44 PM

    I have to learn to love myself. I’m at a point in my life where I dought every single step or even though I have. You have some great tips here, but I do believe that the first one is the most important.

    • March 15, 2018 / 2:23 PM

      Keep working on yourself and you’ll love being single

  49. March 14, 2018 / 8:50 PM

    I just went through a bad breakup and readjusting to being single is harder than I realized. Learning to like being by yourself and realizing that you don’t need someone else is definitely important. Love your tips!

    • March 15, 2018 / 2:22 PM

      Thank you so much. Trust me when I say that you are enough

  50. March 14, 2018 / 10:36 PM

    I was single for basically my entire life before meeting my husband and boy was that a transition because I was (and still am) a very independant person. I never relied on anyone else and I rarely do now, but I know that he’s there for me at a moments notice. I was always so happy with me that I never was sad about being single and I dont think people should be!! Relationships can certainly be hard work and you have to commit 10000% to them or else they do NOT work! So work on the relationship with yourself first before venturing into the relationship realm!

    • March 15, 2018 / 2:18 PM

      This is an amazing response!! I wish more young adults would think along those lines. Thank you so much for reading!

  51. Jessica Taylor
    March 14, 2018 / 11:35 PM

    I have been single for four years and it is the best thing I have ever done for myself. Now I love myself so much more!

    • March 15, 2018 / 1:59 PM

      I am so happy to hear that. Enjoy your singleness!

  52. March 15, 2018 / 3:10 AM

    These are great tips. I wouldn’t even know where to start if I were single, considering my husband and I have been together for almost 17 years.

  53. Ann F. Snook-Moreau
    March 15, 2018 / 3:38 AM

    Not worrying about being single really is key. I was so upset about it but then decided to just do me, then I met the man who would become my husband a few months later!

    • March 15, 2018 / 1:45 PM

      That is so amazing. I love your story and though I enjoy being single I am excited for the day I will meet my future husband.

  54. March 15, 2018 / 8:13 AM

    These are some great sounding ideas, I think you have to be happy single before you can be truely in love.

  55. Sondra Barker
    March 15, 2018 / 5:05 PM

    It is always important to enjoy the spot in life that you are in. When you are single, enjoy being single. If you are in a relationship, enjoy that too. Just do you and enjoy life.

  56. March 15, 2018 / 9:03 PM

    I am married now, but I loved being single back when I was! Traveling alone and learning to love myself. I feel like that is what made me ready for my husband if that makes sense. Being independent for so long I was picky when it came to who I would actually date.

  57. March 16, 2018 / 12:59 AM

    I love everything about this. You are right, being single means being strong enough to wait for what you deserve.

  58. March 16, 2018 / 2:55 AM

    This is some really great information. The single life is long behind me now though.

  59. March 16, 2018 / 8:31 AM

    Those are some great points. Embracing and travelling are really that would help a person like me. Well written.

  60. March 16, 2018 / 10:45 AM

    I think as long as you are a confident person, being single is not such a big deal. Sometimes you just need to focus on yourself for a while.

    • March 26, 2018 / 7:24 PM

      Yes I agree. Trying these tips out does help though

  61. Angela Ricardo Bethea
    March 16, 2018 / 4:08 PM

    These are some great ways to be single and happy. Learn to love ourselves is the most important. I believe that before we go to a relationship we must first learn to love ourselves. Enjoy life!!

    • March 24, 2018 / 12:31 PM

      Yes. Above it all we need to enjoy the life we are living

  62. liza
    March 16, 2018 / 7:14 PM

    Such great advice/tips out there. Single ladies should read this. 😉

  63. March 17, 2018 / 4:20 AM

    Unless you really want to start a family like ‘right now’ I think being single has lots of pros. No compromises and lots of freedom. And you have time to focus on yourself and explore new hobbies.

  64. March 17, 2018 / 5:31 AM

    I am single for few months now. I am still learning the life of being single. There are times when its sad and empty and there are times when it’s just amazing. I am waiting for the time when it will just be amazing and nothing else. Thank you this Dee! I love it.

    • March 17, 2018 / 11:50 AM

      You are so welcome. Just remember that being single is a gift not torture and you will be fine

  65. March 17, 2018 / 5:42 AM

    I love seeing single people be happy with themselves. Those days are long behind me.

  66. TColeman
    March 17, 2018 / 10:18 AM

    So many people have a hard time just finding happiness in being single. There seems to be this nagging that makes us feel like we have to be in a relationship which is not the truth at all.

    • March 17, 2018 / 11:44 AM

      Ye I think even though we aren’t meant to go through life alone we don’t always need to be in a relationship either

  67. Lavanda Michelle
    March 17, 2018 / 6:00 PM

    This is great steps. I was married shortly after college, but whilein college I was in a hurry to find a mate. It seems like that was my girls friends main goals and they settled. I did enjoy being single and finding a hobby was the key. To this day I still haven’t own identity separate from my hubby, and I still enjoy Some ME TIME

  68. March 17, 2018 / 7:27 PM

    I always enjoy some good solo travel. It’s great to see the world when you don’t have someone tying you down. It’s always good to just love yourself and embrace the single life.

  69. Tereka McCollum
    March 18, 2018 / 8:57 PM

    Thanks for sharing this post. I’ve been single on and off for several years myself and have not really enjoyed any of it. I’m a single mom so I have more obstacles but your tips are helpful. Maybe one day I’ll enjoy this season.

    • March 26, 2018 / 7:21 PM

      Trust me when I say it’s never oo late to start enjoying your singleness. Take a few of these tips and try them out and I bet you’ll be surprised

  70. March 19, 2018 / 12:30 AM

    When I was going through my divorce #1 & #7 were the absolute hardest things in the world to do. I’m still working on them, but I can say I’m definitely better than when I started.

    • March 26, 2018 / 7:19 PM

      I am so happy to hear that you are getting better. I wish you the best

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